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From Grief to Guidance

When Grief Meets the Unprepared: A Wake-Up Call for Every Family
What Happens When a Creative Heart Meets a Crisis?
In this deeply moving and powerfully insightful interview. Daniel Kilburn sits down with author and creative entrepreneur Bonnie Lierse to explore a story far too many face—but rarely speak about.
When Bonnie’s husband passed away unexpectedly, she wasn’t just left with heartbreak. She was left with no will, no passwords, no life insurance, and no clear way forward. In a world where we often assume “we don’t have enough to worry about planning,” Bonnie’s story proves just how devastating that belief can be.
Her experience serves as a compelling reminder that preparedness isn’t about wealth—it’s about love, peace, and legacy.
The Hidden Crisis So Many Families Face
Bonnie opens up candidly about the cascading issues she faced after her husband’s passing: navigating probate, losing access to financial accounts, and feeling overwhelmed by the lack of documented information.
So many families—especially those in creative or care-giving roles—live day to day, unaware of the storm that could unfold from one unexpected event. Bonnie’s message is clear: “We thought we didn’t need that yet.” But the truth is, everyone needs a plan, regardless of their financial standing.
Turning Pain Into Purpose
Despite the challenges, Bonnie chose not to let her story end in sorrow.
With spiritual guidance, family support, and an unshakable will to turn adversity into advocacy. Bonnie began helping others navigate similar terrain. Her artistic journey includes writing children’s books, exploring new publishing ventures, and even working to revive a greeting card line lost to time and tragedy.
This interview reveals the softer layers of resilience—emotional strength, spiritual insight, and the courage to rebuild.
A Message for the Next Generation
As Bonnie approaches her 70th birthday, her eyes are set not on the past, but on the future. She shares a heartfelt desire to educate and protect younger generations—especially those with families—so they won’t suffer the same setbacks she did.
Daniel and Bonnie agree: preparing for the unexpected is one of the greatest gifts we can give our loved ones. It’s about more than documents and dollars—it’s about ensuring peace of mind and safeguarding the people who matter most.
Why You Need to Hear This
Whether you’re just starting your financial journey or deep in the complexities of estate and end-of-life planning, Bonnie’s voice will meet you where you are—with empathy, wisdom, and a gentle but firm nudge to act now.
Connect with Bonnie: Scan the QR Code or go to https://pearsonsmithrealty.com/agent/bonnie-lierse/
DM us your thoughts or share how you’ve prepared—or plan to—for the unexpected.
Additional Information: Is Your Family Financially Prepared?
Until next time, stay informed, and stay safe.
Daniel Kilburn
Americas 5-Star Leadership Coach
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